12/21/2011 11:49 AM
Anita horvathova wrote: am 14 and i want to ask 1 question why am i so ugly. small. fat. and i even got glasses can life be even more harder for me. people say that GOD exists. why did he make me like this. why does he make me suffer and cry every night. when i go to sleep. its just not fair he made other people pretty tall skinny and have healthy eyes so they don't have to wear to glasses. i know you would say that its because my parents are ugly but they are not and none of my family wear glasses. Reply to this
12/22/2011 1:58 PMJohn W wrote:
Dear Anita, Thank you for your brave and heartfelt comment. You must have an open and capable heart to feel so deeply and be so brave to write about your painful experience. Don't worry about the cruelty and shallowness of some people, especially young people who bully or say mean things. You are bigger than that. Your heartfelt comment proves that. It shows you have deep beauty of soul. One thing I have found that helps me when I am sad is to find someone who needs help and be kind to them. Maybe a classmate or a person younger than me who is suffering the same thing I am. I help that person. Then, I find that the mercy of God works through me to help the other person. I find more strength in myself as a result. Maybe you could try this too. It is not so much that God rescues me from other mean people people, but that through helping others, God makes me stronger. These bullies and mean people will fade away as you get older. If you are getting stronger by helping others, it won't matter to you what mean bullies and shallow people think. You will have good, deep and lasting friendships with people you have helped. The bullies and mean people will lose all their friends. You will have good and lasting friendships. Let me know how things work out. In the meantime, I'm sending my love and prayers your way.
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am 14 and i want to ask 1 question why am i so ugly. small. fat. and i even got glasses can life be even more harder for me. people say that GOD exists. why did he make me like this. why does he make me suffer and cry every night. when i go to sleep. its just not fair he made other people pretty tall skinny and have healthy eyes so they don't have to wear to glasses. i know you would say that its because my parents are ugly but they are not and none of my family wear glasses.
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Dear Anita, Thank you for your brave and heartfelt comment. You must have an open and capable heart to feel so deeply and be so brave to write about your painful experience. Don't worry about the cruelty and shallowness of some people, especially young people who bully or say mean things. You are bigger than that. Your heartfelt comment proves that. It shows you have deep beauty of soul. One thing I have found that helps me when I am sad is to find someone who needs help and be kind to them. Maybe a classmate or a person younger than me who is suffering the same thing I am. I help that person. Then, I find that the mercy of God works through me to help the other person. I find more strength in myself as a result. Maybe you could try this too. It is not so much that God rescues me from other mean people people, but that through helping others, God makes me stronger. These bullies and mean people will fade away as you get older. If you are getting stronger by helping others, it won't matter to you what mean bullies and shallow people think. You will have good, deep and lasting friendships with people you have helped. The bullies and mean people will lose all their friends. You will have good and lasting friendships. Let me know how things work out. In the meantime, I'm sending my love and prayers your way.
John
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